SPILLING THE TEA ON ALL MY THERAPISTS

  • Yayınlanma Tarihi:  2 ay önce
  • To all the therapists I've seen before. I've been going to therapy for nearly two years now and it's something I'll always prioritize. I'm so happy with the therapist I have now HOWEVER it took me a long time to find the right one. In this video I chat about all the therapists I've seen and explain what I didn't like and what I learned. Hopefully this video can help anyone who's searching for a therapist and encourages you to not give up. ------------------------------------------ 💎 Subscribe and become a Jem today: http://bit.ly/2iLayjY 💎 ------------------------------------------ ➫ Shop my clothing line Eggie: http://eggie.us ------------------------------------------ ➫ Instagram: http://instagram.com/imjennim ➫ Twitter: http://twitter.com/imjennim ➫ Facebook: http://facebook.com/imjennim ➫ Spotify: http://bit.ly/2rctq05 ➫ Snapchat: http://snapchat.com/add/jennimsnaps ------------------------------------------ ❐ MUSIC ❏ ➫ DJ Grumble's Soundcloud: http://bit.ly/1ElnUag ➫ DJ Grumble's Spotify: http://spoti.fi/2s5bRD7 ------------------------------------------ FTC: This video is NOT sponsored.
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Yorum Sayısı: 1676

  • Jenn Im
    Jenn Im 2 ay önce

    To all the therapists I've seen before... I wanted to sit down and chat about my whole journey on finding the right therapist for me. I would love to know your guys' therapy experiences in the comments below. n_n

  • Kelina
    Kelina 18 saat önce

    This is such a great video and so informational, I very scared to start therapy so hearing you talk about it which it’s hard to find good videos on topics like this, you made it very easy thank you!

  • Abigail Delgado
    Abigail Delgado 1 gün önce

    Please make more videos like this!

  • Black Fire
    Black Fire 4 gün önce

    I want to go to therapy but I haven't yet. This video was so helpful and organized, I love your videos 💕

  • Mia Shaw
    Mia Shaw 3 hafta önce

    this video was so helpful! i would love to see more content like this.

  • Maria Escobar
    Maria Escobar 3 hafta önce

    I want mooreeee videos like this!!!😍😍😍

  • colojuli
    colojuli 3 hafta önce

    Your current therapist reminds me of the one I had for 3 years. She never really gave me any straight up advice, which kind of drove me crazy at times, but she let me arrive to the conclusions by myself. She was great :)

  • CartDi
    CartDi 3 hafta önce

    I don’t even know how to tell you how helpful this was. Thank you ♥️

  • Jessa Petersen-Perry
    Jessa Petersen-Perry 3 hafta önce

    So thankful for my therapist!

  • Evelyn Teodoro
    Evelyn Teodoro 3 hafta önce

    Thank you so much Jenn

  • rosemdance
    rosemdance 4 hafta önce

    I love this! Thank you very much for taking the time to open up about your therapy experiences. Even just getting the narrative out there that it takes time and to not give up is so important! ❤️

  • Vittoria Burioni
    Vittoria Burioni 1 ay önce

    7:38 that face :')

  • Karen Kwan
    Karen Kwan 1 ay önce

    this video is so helpful! I've been contemplating about going to therapy for a long time, and your advice makes looking for the right therapist a lot easier! Thank you :)

  • Sherry Chen
    Sherry Chen 1 ay önce

    your current therapist sounds exactly like my therapist right now!!!!!!!! omg I love this, thanks for sharing Jen!!

  • WiwyWish
    WiwyWish 1 ay önce

    I would love for you to share some ways to cope with psycological issues. Everyone has different experiences in therapy, and not everyone finds a solution, but if you have found some solutions for yourself, maybe they can help us who haven’t found one yet :)

  • Amanda
    Amanda 1 ay önce

    I've had the same qualms for seeing a therapist because of differences in culture. As an Asian person, we put so much pressure on ourselves to meet expectations as well as take care of our family. There is an obligation that we are raised to have to take care of our parents and family. I completely love that you shared this. Therapy is really an amazing thing. <3

  • Ana R.
    Ana R. 1 ay önce

    Hey Jenn! Absolutely love your travel & relationship videos, but this one on mental health and therapy feels really special. I was a psych student for 5 or 6 years and for most of that time, I had no idea that a lot of the mental health issues we discussed in class actually related to me. I only sought therapy once I was away from home and studying abroad. My first therapist was...very much not for me, but our schedules didn't line up so I was placed with a different one. She was absolutely fantastic, and so was the therapist I ended up seeing back in the U.S. (All of my therapists were white, but my last two were really good at letting me speak about my life without white-washing it or ignoring the cultural aspects._

    As a person of color, I think it's incredibly important that we hear other POC sharing their mental health journeys and therapy experiences. So often, it seems like people of color are just brought up with this "grin and bear it" attitude. But that doesn't mean we have to bear it alone. So thank you Jenn! <3 And I'm glad to hear you've made progress. I have too.

  • vampvivid
    vampvivid 1 ay önce

    I'm glad you made this video, Jen. It just shows not all therapist are great. Whenever I tell people about my experience with a therapist, they couldn't believe me. I felt so upset about that, just because they have a degree doesn't mean they're always going to be a good therapist. There are good lawyers, bad lawyers, good cops, bad cops, good doctors, bad doctors and some people are just blinded by the bad one. My therapist exposed my personal life to my school and even called the 911 saying I wrote a suicidal letter when I did not write anything to her. I just stopped seeing her because I felt uncomfortable with her. She decide to revenge on me by calling 911, getting the cops visit my mom, that was so uncalled for. I'm glad you found the right therapist, Jen!

  • Dora Pak
    Dora Pak 1 ay önce

    Thank you Jenn ! This video is really helpful ! I’m under pressure for a long time , maybe it’s the time for me to try the mental therapist too :) Thanks again !

  • Alex Melendez
    Alex Melendez 1 ay önce

    Pleeeease make more videos like this! I've always loved your channel and videos, and this made me feel so much better about having mental health issues. Not enough people talk about it, and it's so refreshing and helpful for my own experience when others open up.
    I'm mexican-american first generation, and so I can relate to owing your parents. I've had to leave a couple of wh1te therapists because they just didn't understand that sort of culture. I'm still trying to find someone, and this video gave me some hope. <3

  • Emaline L.
    Emaline L. 1 ay önce

    Would LOVE to see more mental health videos :) and thank you for going thru your journey about finding the therapist that's right for you. I'll definitely be taking this advice to heart when I find one for myself one day :)

  • Julz Amidala
    Julz Amidala 1 ay önce

    +1 on not throwing up at Joshua Tree! OMG! But +1 on dealing with toxic social situations too. +100 on not having our own issues bleed into our relationships! Your insight about our problems growing more complex along with our lives is so helpful! Thanks, Jenn 💛

  • Thảo Vi
    Thảo Vi 1 ay önce

    As a future grad student in Counseling and MFT, this video is everything I need right now. Thank you.

  • Zhen Yang
    Zhen Yang 1 ay önce

    Hi Jen, I'm so glad I saw your video. I'm having the same issue/feeling with you. I'm a chinese who married to a British and live in the UK over 12 years. I feel I own my parents everything and I feel guilty that I'm not with them. They are living in China, although we go to see them every year. But I feel failed to be a good daughter.

  • roundbunny
    roundbunny 1 ay önce

    hi jen i havent watched that many of your vids (not into your eggie line etc since it isnt my style) but LOVE LOVE LOVE this video, thank you so much , please do more like this! thank you for sharing with us, i am sure many others feel the same. mental health is so improtant. i am so happy for you that you found a good therapist!! i am inspired b y you to serach for one too. i get what you mean about same ethniticity....totally get it!!

  • Violacea L
    Violacea L 1 ay önce

    More mental health videos please. This has been therapeutic

  • Lucía Mengual
    Lucía Mengual 1 ay önce

    jenn, this was helpful for me in a way you cant imagine. i gave up on searching for a therapist bc of my bad experiences but maybe it just takes more time (?)

  • Marg Ona
    Marg Ona 1 ay önce

    VIrgo????

  • frantastique
    frantastique 1 ay önce

    Wow this is actually really helpful, like, in my experience I just went to the first therapist I found and didn't even took the time to say: is this person good for what I need or not. I went first to a psychiatrist and he just gave me pills, we didn't have more than 30 minutes to talk and I could see him just once a month. After a year he realized I needed therapy with a psychologist, but she sucked so much I just stopped going to both of them. I got so mad these people were so tired and busy and were just working like robots I just told to myself I am gonna recover on my own. Just deal with it, and stay strong. Of course it wasn't the best decision, for a few years I felt ok (that was on 2012) but since last year to now, I know I am under so much shit I really need to go to therapy. My problem is that I am poor so I can't afford better therapist and I am most likely get the same kind of public therapist with just a few minutes a month to talk and feel unlistened... but this actually helps, now I know what to look for on a therapist and hopefuly I will be able to go to a better one in the future.

  • Corey Chatman
    Corey Chatman 1 ay önce

    Love this video. Thanks girl.

  • PapillonBleuNoir
    PapillonBleuNoir 1 ay önce

    I'm so glad you've found the right therapist! That is so important... And I'm sure therapy can be so healing with the right person :) Because of my circumstances I could only try text therapy, and honestly I don't think that the platform is bad in any way. it's actually cool how you have time to think and write down what you really mean, and also have time to think about what your therapist said, it's just that in my case they didn't match/were bad therapists. The first one felt like she didn't listen to my feelings at all, just went through a checklist of what she should ask and pushed me to "move on" sort of... The next one was just letting me talk and didn't even pay attention to what I was saying and what happened. After a year I was in a better place though and tried again and it seemed really great, but then she basically just kept saying the things I told her back to me like "Oh I see you're getting better. That's great." and that's it basically. The last straw was when she said that my relationship with my narcissistic ex that I was talking about for a month "started well, but then he was just confused and ended up hurting me" and when I asked her how to get my self-esteem back she said "surround yourself with good people. But you need to have confidence in yourself first." and didn't even try to even start helping me get there. Like, great, thanks for that, now I'm all healed...??
    It's so exhausting to open yourself up deeply to people and then get really uncomfortable results. I know it made me incapable of doing that anymore :/ I still support therapy though, I can see the vast potentials of it! Anyone with a good therapist, appreciate it, it's so enviable.

  • Carmen Pham
    Carmen Pham 1 ay önce

    Wow yes it took me so so long to understand the cutural importance and difference of parents in the Asian community especially with my in laws I get it now even though I do not have the same feelings for my own parents

  • Naomi Daimaru
    Naomi Daimaru 1 ay önce

    I'm a trans Asian American from hawaii, i am currently seeing my therapist for over 2 years now too, and she has helped to encourage me in becoming a better person. Im so happy for you to share with us your therapy journey and that you found a an awesome therapist 😊love you jenn!

  • Joan Z
    Joan Z 1 ay önce

    my mental health journey has also been a long and tiring one and i am so relieved that i found a therapist that i can work with! finding an asian-american therapist was also really important to me when looking for a therapist. another commenter mentioned this, but with white therapists, i spend more time explaining the values & beliefs behind my culture(s) vs. getting the help i need.... never mind the fact that cultural identity is something i already struggle with. i live in the midwest, and in the state i live in, i had a really hard time finding an asian-american therapist that took my insurance. however, one of the therapists that i contacted provided me with a list of therapists that she knew personally and took my insurance. and that's how i found the therapist i currently see :) if you encounter a therapist that you feel like understands you but cannot see them for whatever reason, i highly highly recommend asking them for recommendations.

  • Love Ly
    Love Ly 1 ay önce

    Yes, more mental health videos please!

  • SongS DP
    SongS DP 1 ay önce

    Yes! I’m also following therapy ❤️ I got lucky to find the right therapist immediately.

  • Aleta Michele
    Aleta Michele 1 ay önce

    This isn't the type of video to have ads pop up in the middle of...but I agree sometimes you may have better success with professionals that you have more in common with.

  • Enchanteralle
    Enchanteralle 1 ay önce

    As an Asian American therapist myself, I agree that sometimes clients just need to take the risk to shop around before they find a good fit. Finding a therapist who understands your culture (not just ethnicity) is very important. The key here is that the client will work on goals that he/she establish. I'm glad you found one that lets you explore your own goals. These days a lot of clients want to get therapy to get a solution or answer from their therapists. Doesn't work that way. A lot of people want instant gratification. Thanks for sharing!

  • Rebecca Sun
    Rebecca Sun 1 ay önce

    Being a therapist myself, this was really interesting and awesome to watch. I'm really glad that you kept it up in finding the right fit for you because the therapeutic relationship is truly so important in the effectiveness of therapy. Also, thank you for being so opened about your process and giving therapy a platform that is real and personal; it is a stark contrast to so much of the negative connotations with therapy.

  • Amber Cho
    Amber Cho 1 ay önce

    Watching this and hearing about your experiences and how you were able to push through difficulties was inspiring. It makes me really appreciate the therapists I’ve started seeing a few months back! I’m grateful to have the opportunity to see a therapist. We can only continue striving towards self-love and compassion!